Introducing a new caregiver is a significant transition for both you and your toddler. It is completely normal for a child to show some resistance, clinginess, or behavioral changes as they get used to a new person in their space.

Here is how you can help make the transition smoother:

• Consistency is Key: Try to keep the daily routine as predictable as possible during the handover period. When the structure remains the same—meal times, nap times, and play rituals—it provides a sense of security even when the person facilitating them has changed.
• Foster Connection: Spend some time playing together with both the new nanny and your child present. This 'co-play' shows your toddler that you trust this person and creates a bridge between your relationship and theirs.
• Be Patient with the 'Phase': Your toddler might be vocal about their preference for you or their previous caregiver. This is a sign of their developing social awareness, not a reflection of the new nanny’s skills. Continue to provide reassurance, validate their feelings, and give them time to build their own unique rapport with the new caregiver.
• Open Communication: Have regular check-ins with your nanny about what is working and what isn't. Sharing your toddler’s specific comfort items, favorite games, or triggers can help the nanny bond with your child faster.

Remember, this is a process. Stay observant, stay patient, and trust that with time and consistent, loving interactions, your toddler will feel comfortable in their new routine.