Is it normal to be upset if my birth didn't go as planned?

It is entirely valid to feel disappointed or let down if your birth experience diverged from your expectations, regardless of the delivery method. Many parents find that the vulnerability of the postpartum period makes it difficult to process traumatic or unexpected events. Remember that there is no single 'normal' way to give birth, and any surgery that ensures the safety of you and your baby is a major achievement; consider professional debriefing if your birth story continues to cause you distress.