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Au pair experience - good or bad?

Considering an au pair for next year (1 year old). Don't really know anyone who's had one. What's the reality?

5 Replies

cozy-turtle 4/8/2026

Brilliant if you have space. Like having a younger sibling who helps out. The cultural exchange element is special.

nimble-lemur 4/9/2026

It's a relationship not a transaction. Goes well if you treat them like family, less well if you treat them like staff.

jolly-otter 4/9/2026

AuPairWorld and Energy Au Pair are decent platforms.

breezy-meerkat 4/10/2026

Mixed bag. We had 2 great ones and 1 disaster. Pick carefully via reputable agency.

happy-turtle 4/12/2026

Limit hours to legal max (25-30/week) and respect days off. Otherwise burnout fast.