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Nursery red flags to watch for?

Touring nurseries this week. What questions to ask and red flags to spot?

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bright-narwhal 2/6/2026

Look at how staff interact with babies - getting on the floor or just supervising from a chair?

smiley-narwhal 2/6/2026

Outdoor access multiple times daily, even in rain.

fuzzy-hedgehog 2/6/2026

Ask how they handle conflict between kids - 'we don't have conflict' is a red flag.

misty-sloth 2/7/2026

Staff turnover rate - high turnover is the biggest red flag.

breezy-nuthatch 2/9/2026

Staff:child ratio in PRACTICE not on paper. Drop in at random times.

giggly-dove 2/11/2026

Settling-in policy - if they rush you through it, they don't get it.

nimble-lemur 2/11/2026

Read OFSTED reports but don't rely on them alone - they're a snapshot.