If your toddler is suddenly glued to your side, you are not alone. Separation anxiety is a very common phase for two-year-olds. It can feel overwhelming, especially if you have upcoming transitions like starting a playgroup, but there are ways to make the process easier for both of you.

Why It Happens

At this age, children are becoming more aware of their surroundings and the concept of change. Clinginess is often their way of seeking security when they feel uncertain. This phase can last a few months, but it is typically a sign of your close bond and their developmental growth.

Supporting Your Toddler

• Read and Talk: Introduce the idea of school through books about new experiences and talk about the upcoming changes in a positive, calm way.
• Visit Together: Many playgroups offer a settling period. Take advantage of school visits to show your child around the classroom so it feels like a familiar, safe space before their first day alone.
• Quality Time: While it’s tempting to pull back, lean into the phase by spending extra focused time with them. The more secure they feel in your connection, the more confident they will eventually become in exploring on their own.

A Note for Parents

It is normal to doubt your decisions or feel frustrated when you can't get a moment of personal space. Try to remain patient—this is a temporary stage. Many parents find that after a few weeks of consistent routine and reassurance, their children settle into the new environment beautifully. Trust that you are doing a great job supporting their development.